A Lone Stranger

1. Women are naturally intuitive while men are rational. Everything has to make logical sense to men. Intuition may not always be right, your wife may not be able to logically explain why she is recommending or suggesting certain things to you, but do not discard what she says. So learn to LISTEN to your wife. 2. You have to protect your territory as a man. Men are territorial in nature and in this context, your territory is your wife. Protect her, don't leave her unguarded and tend to her needs. 3. If you are a lady, your husband is not "another lady". If you are a man, your wife is not "another man". Don't relate with your spouse like you are talking with your fellow gender. Your wife is not "your guy".  4. When your wife is speaking, sometimes she's not asking for your solution. She just wants to talk. So don't cut her off while she's conversing with you, just enjoy the conversation.  5. If you are a man and you are not spiritual, yo

- It takes PATIENCE to live with a woman.. - It takes PATIENCE to love a woman. MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. Start building it now. A woman can make you go late for EVENTS back to back because she will take 3hours to get ready, remember you only need 3minutes. If you are not PATIENT, you will talk to her in a manner or do something you will regret later.  A woman can Burst into TEARS just because you forgot to tell her I LOVE YOU before you dozed off to sleep. A woman loves to talk, if you are not PATIENT as a man, you will SNAP one day and tell her woman, you talk TOO MUCH, Don't you ever keep quiet? And those words can damage a WOMAN'S SELF ESTEEM almost irreversibly. A woman craves ATTENTION and PETTING, this can sometimes get on your nerves as a man and only PATIENCE will help you. A woman can get angry, and you will use full 45minutes to be APOLOGISING, if you are not PATIENT you can't keep her.. She will say she is not hungry, then after you buy only one

Dear guys, if you want to keep your woman, you need to show her that you love her with all your heart, mind, and soul. You cannot force her to stay with you, but you can make her fall in love with you every day. Here are some tips on how to do that: * **Be humble and practice forgiveness.** Oga, learn to admit your own mistakes and ask for forgiveness sincerely. Don't repeat your mistakes over and over again. If she makes mistakes, forgive her too and don't let your pride get in the way. * **Know and understand her better.** Listen to her heart and learn what she loves and hates, what makes her happy or sad. You should be the one who understands her the most. Don't make her feel like a stranger to you. * **Be consistently honest.** Don't lie about anything, whether it's your past, present, or future. Honesty is rare in this world, and it will make her trust you and feel secure with you. If you're an honest person, she will want to stay with you. * **Be loyal.**

Most men in this generation don't understand it's not about giving her the world, but it's actually about making her feel like she's a priority in yours. It's about surprising her with a sweet text throughout the day to remind her you're thinking about her.  It's about coming home from work and asking about her day because you genuinely care about the answer.  It's about going to the refrigerator to get yourself a drink, and you get her one without even asking.  It's about driving down a backroad and pulling off to the side to pick her some beautiful wildflowers.  It's about cuddling on the couch in sweatpants and binge-watching your favourite show on Netflix together.  It's about taking her to her favourite restaurant unannounced.  It's about slow dancing with her in the rain to a song that was written by George Strait. It's about calling her randomly and asking how she is doing because you care about her mental health.  It's abo

1. SOCIAL INTIMACY This is when you enjoy someone's company in public, when you single that person out in public, when you would rather go to places with that one person because you two have a good connection  2. FRIENDSHIP INTIMACY This is when it grows beyond just spending time to really get to know each other. When you get to know each other's mannerisms, likes, dislikes and invest in more one on one interactions  3. EMOTIONAL INTIMACY  This is when you become bare and unashamed. You two get to share your fears and desires, you two get to talk about things no one else knows, you two don't have rushed conversations but you go deep in unraveling and unveiling each other and loving each other for who you truly are. This intimacy requires no walls, no pretence, you two get to a place where you can say "I feel understood"  4. PHYSICAL INTIMACY This is when the connection goes to touch. When you two are safe and free with each other and confident in claiming each oth

Society has conditioned many of us to believe that men should be the strong, protective, stable archetype and that they aren't generally as emotional as women and therefore we aren't used to seeing grown men break down and cry when their feelings overwhelm them. We don't often hear them voicing their vulnerabilities and when men say, "I need to be held," it can turn both men and women away perceiving that they are needy, insecure and possibly even immature or weak—so the men suffer in silence. I may be wrong, but I think many men would not feel comfortable starting a conversation about how they wish their partner would wrap their arms around them, hold them safe, let them speak from the heart and let the built up emotional tears flow. I believe they would find this challenging to unearth, with a woman, and most certainly, within their male friendship circles. Possibly the most difficult thing about all of this is that men don't just need their loved one, or ev

DEAR WIFE... 1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a good attitude. No matter how sexy you look or dress, your husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude. 2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant to be around. No matter how tasty your No matter food, it loses taste when being around you is stressful. 3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to overreact.  A man refrains from sharing too much when he is scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted. 4. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained. 5. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil, stop attking him or labelling him as "The

After some time, you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and imprisoning a soul  You learn that love does not equal sex, and that company does not equal security, and you start to learn…. That kisses are not contracts and gifts are not promises, and you start to accept defeat with the head up high and open eyes, and you learn to build all roads on today, because the terrain of tomorrow is too insecure for plans… and the future has its own way of falling apart in half. And you learn that if it's too much even the warmth of the sun can burn. So you plant your own garden and embellish your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring flowers to you. And you learn that you can actually bear hardship, that you are actually strong, and you are actually worthy, and you learn and learn…and so every day. Over time you learn that being with someone because they offer you a good future, means that sooner or later you'll want to return to your past. Over time you compre

✒️SHE IS INTELLIGENT   She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her. She talks about personal development and growth.  ✒️SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE  Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected.  ✒️SHE MULTIPLIES She'll turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty lazy waiting for things to be done fo her.  ✒️SHE LOVES BEING LOVED Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too.  ✒️SHE LOVES THROUGH FOOD  She will make attempts to cook the best meals. Tasty and delicious healthy foods for self and her loved ones and in the process, feed your soul too.  ✒️SHE'S FUN Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company. A

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better  In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her  Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up.  They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's HONESTLY Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's. A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave

✓ She speaks to him with a caring tone ✓ She gives him peace ✓ She doesn't compare him with other men; she inspires him to be the best version of himself ✓ She doesn't shout or scold him as if he is incompetent ✓ She doesn't belittle him when he is down or going through loss ✓ She corrects him lovingly in private; away from the children (if they're married) and the public ✓ She doesn't announce to people the things she has done for him and how he would be nothing without her ✓ She brings to attention his few weaknesses without forgetting his many strengths ✓ She doesn't give him silent treatment to punish him ✓ She doesn't say hurtful things just because she is mad  ✓ She acknowledges his good traits in private and in public ✓ She doesn't do mean things to teach him a lesson ✓ She suggests instead of ordering ✓ She doesn't treat him well only when the pastor or in-laws are watching. Her treatment is consistent, not a show. ✓ She gives him room to lea

𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝟏𝟖-𝟓𝟓, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬… 1. Life doesn't wait for you to be okay. Get up everyday and keep pushing through. 2. Never force anyone to choose you. You'll learn the art to spend time alone 3. Master your emotions. A calm mind can handle any situation. 4. To avoid disappointment, you need to take people for who they're not for what you want them to be. 5. Everyone will show you who they're, just give them time 6. You're at peace with yourself when you mind your own business. 7. Ensure you take good care of yourself, if anything happens to you, the world will move on. 8. Nobody cares, work hard to get better everyday. 9. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and give you a purpose. 10. Free yourself from the society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing. 11. 30 years is too long to sit in an office being told what to do. 12. You shouldn't

To My love... 1. There will be times I will be so mad at you and cold towards you. It's not that I hate you. I am just disappointed by what you did, my love hasn't gone anywhere 2. There will be times I will not spend as much time with you as you wish me to. It's not that I am ignoring you, I am working hard for our future 3. There will be times I will say or do something wrong. It's not that I meant to hurt you, we all fall short sometimes. Forgive me, teach me to love you 4. There will be friends in my life. But never doubt that you are my priority 5. There will be moments when I will not be that conversational, I will not be so fun to talk with. It's not that I find you boring. My mood has changed, I need some minutes to myself, I will come around 6. There will be moments where I want to scream at you and say all that is in my head in anger. It's not that you are my enemy, but sometimes you get on my nerves. I will control my temper and my tongue, you're

LOVE IS THE SIMPLE THINGS 1. Love is making the bed together when you wake up in the morning 2. Love is cleaning each other's ears with earbuds when you two are chilling, what a relaxing feeling 3. Love is him helping her decide which clothes to wear, her helping to straighten his tie 4. Love is doing shopping together as you bump into friends and say hello to the cashier at the supermarket  5. Love is she shaving his facial hair, him helping to unstrap her bra and zip on her dress 6. Love is waiting for each other so that you eat as a family  7. Love is tickling the baby together, teamwork parenting  8. Love is having a pillow fight, competing against each other, choosing opposing teams as you watch a sports game, nicely bullying and teasing each other  9. Love is filling a crossword puzzle together, playing indoor games  10. Love is him blowing away the eyelash that has entered her eye and causing her irritation, her wiping the stain on his shirt  11. Love is looking at old photo

The donkey told the tiger:  ′′The grass is blue".  The tiger replied:  ′′No, the grass is green". The discussion became heated up, and the two decided to submit the issue to arbitration, and to do so they approached the lion, King of the Jungle.  Before reaching the clearing in the forest where the lion was sitting on his throne, the donkey started screaming: ′′Your Highness, is it true that grass is blue?". The lion replied: "True, the grass is blue".  The donkey rushed forward and continued:  ′′The tiger disagrees with me and contradicts me and annoys me please punish him". The king then declared: ′′The tiger will be punished with 5 years of silence". The donkey jumped for joy and went on his way, content and repeating: ′′The grass is blue"... The tiger accepted his punishment, but he asked the lion: ′′Your Majesty, why have you punished me, after all, the grass is green?" The lion replied: ′′In fact, the grass is green". The tiger as

My love, my boi boo, I am used to translating my language for people to understand me. Then you came, learning all my words and actions— reading my soul between the lines. You taught me that I do not need to always explain myself to anybody because if they are really interested, they will make a way to know me.  You made it look easy to love me. And had me remember that it is not my fault if ever my past relationships let me believe that I am that hard to be loved. I bet that you know me so well— from my silence to my laugh out loud, from my shyness to my ambiversion, from my clumsiness to my safeguard. You adore all of it as if I am a perfect person.  There, you remind me of sunsets, rooftops, and breathtaking view. Of midnight riptides, ocean waves, and lukewarm water. Of the place where the sun meets the sea and where the moon kisses the clouds. You're all the beautiful metaphors I could ever think. And if this is too much for you, my love, may I remind you that this grateful gi

1. The less you say, the more your words will matter. 2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does. 3. When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities. 4. No matter how much it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggle changed your life for the better. 5. There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you're the one that will change theirs. 6. Never be afraid to try something new because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know. 7. When you are ignored by a person whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in your brain will be similar to physical pain. 8. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. 9. Once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that y

1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems. . 2. Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man who has no challenges. . 3. no problem has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are going through. . 4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self-esteem and inferiority complex. . 5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something just to make you feel sad. . 6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges. . 7. In your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favourite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc. . 8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man t

1. Many women dress up for the public but they don't put as much effort to dress up for their husband in bed. Lady, your number one audience is your man 2. Many women complain that their husbands don't s*x them good, yet they do not express what they want their husbands to s*xually do to them. Lady, your man doesn't read minds 3. Many women are shy in bed, largely because of their low self esteem making the husband feel as if he is forcing a s*xual encounter with her since she comes off as disengaged in the act. Lady work on your self esteem, it directly affects your s*x life 4. Many women do not praise their husband's performance in bed even when he is good. Lady, the more you talk well about his penis, the way he touches you, the way he licks you; the more he want to please you. Work on his ego 5. Many women belittle their husband, talk down at him with disrespect and then expect him to give great s*x. Lady, when you undermine him and talk to him as if he is not man e

What makes a man fall in love with a woman The complexities of love and relationships! Understanding what makes a man fall deeply in love with a woman can involve a combination of emotional and practical factors. Here are some key qualities that tend to make a man fall deeply in love with a woman: 1. Authenticity: Being honest, transparent, and respectful of each other's differences lays the foundation for a strong and lasting relationship. 2. Support: Men appreciate women who support them during challenging times and understand their dreams and goals. Having a partner who can manage crises and navigate difficult times together is highly valued. 3. Emotional Connection: Feeling understood, appreciated, desired, and loved creates a deep emotional bond that goes beyond surface-level attraction. Spending quality time together and building a meaningful connection is essential for a happy and deep relationship. 4. Physical Attraction: While it's not just about physical appearance, m

1.  Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3.  Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse's past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.  5. Never talk bad about your spouse

1. A woman can never love two men at the same time. It is always one. If you are not, you are not. There are no two ways around. That is why you usually see two women fighting for one man they love. A woman who loves you, smells everything that touches you including your clothes. 2. The sexual desire in women is usually more than that of a man. Don't think it's only men that desired sex more than women. Women desired sex more than us only that it's in their nature to wait for us to ask for it. That is because women don't want to face rejection, embarrassment and insult no matter what they always want until someone saves them and take the blame. 3. Women don't keep secrets to someone they love no matter what you tell them. No matter what she says, wait till she meets someone she loves in bed, somebody who knows them more than you, somebody who knows what she's capable of doing, somebody who knows that she wouldn't hide anything from him; that's the person

1.She doesn't text you back. Women are communicative. If you text a girl, and she likes you, chances are, she will reply to you. And soon! If she isn't answering your text messages, that is a surefire sign that she just isn't that into you. 2. She avoids being alone with you. If she always says things like "I'll meet you there," or if she never wants to hang out alone with you or at your house, she probably doesn't like you. 3. She doesn't ask you any personal questions. If a woman isn't 'mystified' and 'curious' about you as a man, odds are basically zero that she's going to be interested in you. 4. She tries to tell you all her bad qualities. Pointing out all her faults is a way to tell you that you should find someone who is better suited for you, or that she is just not into you. 5. She doesn't care about the topics you're discussing. If she doesn't seem to care about anything you're talking about, odds are g