A Lone Stranger

You're dating the wrong person if you continually beg for communication. How can you love someone and you're not talking to the person. I don't mean to say you must talk to each other every second and minute but at least let there be a form of communication because communication is the bedrock of any relationship. You're never too busy not to have time to communicate with the person you claim to love.  Where there's no communication there's no fellowship, where there's no fellowship there's no friendship and where there's no friendship there's nothing like relationship. Anytime communication starts to reduce drastically in any relationship weather friendship, dating, courtship or marriage, just know that the relationship is about to crash if nothing positively is done about it quickly.  If you are in that kind of relationship, you're simply dating someone who is not dating you.  You're dating someone who is dating someone else or someone

THREE STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP 1. The Butterfly Stage This is when your admiration for this person sky rockets. You only see the good, even their flaws seems like no big deal to you. It's the "love is blind" stage.. 2) The Knowledge Stage This is when the butterflies have died and turned to worms, it's the rude shock stage, the "I never knew you could do this" stage... This is when all about the person, the little details that matter come to the fore. You now see Dracula in this person. 3) The Understanding Stage At this stage you weigh everything, the good, the bad and the ugly and make your decision  You can now decide if you want to be with this person or not, based on the facts before you.  This stage takes time and time doesn't mean 80 years... Remember, time doesn't change anything, it reveals what changed. At this stage it's safer to make your decision... However, whether you started a relationship with butterfly or not,  What will determi

RULES FOR COUPLES FOR BEING MAD 1. Be mad at me, but don't insult me. Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly 2. Be mad at me, but tell me why you are mad. Don't assume I know 3. Be mad at me, but don't broadcast it to others. Cover me 4. Be mad at me, but don't forget the many good things about me. Be objective and fair 5. Be mad at me, but also remember the many other times I have forgiven you 6. Be mad at me, but don't give me silent treatment. Keep the communication lines open 7. Be mad at me, but don't use it as an excuse to cheat on me 8. Be mad at me, but don't hurt me to even the score. Love doesn't revenge 9. Be mad at me, but don't stay mad for long. Let's sort this out quickly  10. Be mad at me, but don't stop praying for me. I still need your prayers 11. Be mad at me, but don't threaten to quit what we have. Ending it is not the solution 12. Be mad at me, but don't punish me using sex. Let's keep intimacy special, do

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN. A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better 💯 In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her ❤️🥰 Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up. 🤦 They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner 🤔 their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's🤦 HONESTLY Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's.🙄 A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep

No relationship can succeed without both partners putting together to make it work. 14 RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP 1. Never push a loyal woman to the point where she no longer cares 2. There is a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you. Remember that. 3. Communication and trust are important if you want to secure your spot in someone's heart. 4. Never fall in love with someone who left his girl for you because he might do the same and leave you for someone else. 5. A real man never gives up on the woman he loves with all his heart, no matter how much it hurts. 6. Don't play with someone's feelings just because you're unsure of your own. 7. One of the worst mistakes you'll make is walking away from the person who stood there and waited for you. 8. Just because one man treated you badly doesn't mean all men will. Get this into your skull. 9. Be careful what you say. A girl remembers everything. They wi

You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet women who are more informed, you will meet women who acts as though they care more than your woman.  Also as a woman you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive body than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talks better than your man;  I mean men who knows how to say sweet words, crack jokes. Etc. Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life. And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they're.  Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside. Learn to appreciate your partner Love your partner without any reservations. Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doin

THE TEN GUIDELINES OF MAKING A HOME NOT A HOUSE 1. Know that a house only becomes a home when people living in it have a good relationship with each other. The warmth of a home is built from love for each other.  2. Don't turn your house into a lodge where you only visit to sleep and leave the next day. Be present at home physically and also emotionally.  3. The home should be home for everyone; the husband, wife and the children. It should be comfortable for all, accommodating the personalities of all. None feeling like an outsider.  4. Refrain from using "My"... "My house, my TV"... use "Our" to communicate to your spouse you are a team. You're a family and partners in growth and success.  5. Try as much as possible not to go to bed angry with each other. Nothing communicates home best like a good night's sleep. Overcome your egos and emotions.  6. Serve each other as a couple at home. Serving means helping, meeting each other's needs, le