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6 LESSONS TO BE A HAPPY MAN

1. There are many things more precious than money It is easy to be enslaved by the mindset that money is the most imperative treasure in society. Money is always transient, just like most things in life. It comes and goes, but how much are you willing to pay for the fleeting pleasure? The consequences of a money-mentality are much more damaging than the value of money itself. Are you willing to put your mental, emotional, and physical well-being on the line? There are things more precious than money. Here are a few: -Experiences -Genuine connections -A feeling of purpose -Genuine concern for helping others -Eddie says, "there are many things in this world that no amount of money will buy you, and some things are priceless beyond measure." 2. Weakness can be turned into hatred Weak people lack the ability to maintain any level of emotional intelligence. People who lack emotional intelligence and a strong sense of self are easily influenced to hate. Their values and convictions

HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO DURING A MISUNDERSTANDING TO AVOID IT FROM GETTING OUT OF HAND. Misunderstanding is something you can never do without in a relationship/marriage, misunderstandings would come to either make your relationship weaker or stronger, you can make your relationship strive no matter the misunderstanding that comes your way if you know how to handle them when they come. Most people who do not know how to handle misunderstandings in their relationships/marriages have become victims of divorce and heartbreak. If you can master how to handle misunderstandings when they come, be rest assured that you're going to enjoy a beautiful relationship. HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING 📌LISTEN:  The first thing to do during a misunderstanding is not shout back at your spouse, the first thing to do is to listen to what they are saying and try to understand where they are coming from, even when they are screaming on top of their voices, relax, be calm and listen. 📌DON'T RETALIATE: I

A smart woman

How many men have I heard that they want a "smart woman" in their life ! .. I would encourage them to think about this... Smart women make decisions for themselves, have their own desires and set boundaries. You will never be the center of her life because it revolves around herself.  A smart woman will not allow herself to be manipulated or blackmailed, she takes responsibility. Smart women question, analyze, argue, are not satisfied, move forward. Those women had a life before you and I know they will continue to have once you are gone. She warns, she doesn't ask for permission. These women are not looking for a leader to follow, a father to solve their lives, or a son to save them. They don't want to follow you or mark someone's path. They want to walk beside you. She knows that life without violence is a right, not a luxury or a privilege. They express their anger, sadness, joy, and fear in the same way, fear doesn't make her weak, the same way anger doesn

SOME WARNING SIGNALS YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!

ANGER: If he/she easily gets angry when you have a little misunderstanding, he/she doesn't tolerate jokes, be conscious before you committed to him/her. THREATENING YOU: If he/she threatening to leave you when you have a little argument, he/she will threatening and may leave you in marriage, be wise. BEATING YOU: If he beat you up every time, if he slaps you during an argument, he will do the worst in marriage. Be wise.  LACK OF COMMUNICATION:  If you are the only one that does all the calling, caring, messaging, texting... It depicts that you are forcing yourself on him/her. A man/woman that truly loves you will show it through his/her actions, he/she will not make excuses, they will find time to connect with you no matter how busy their schedule is. He/she will see you as their priority...Be sensitive. WOMANIZER: If he womanizes, if you always see him with different girls, if he cheats on you on countless occasions,  he may not change if you marry him. Look well before you leap.

HOW TO APOLOGIZE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

1. ADMIT YOU ARE WRONG  Many grown-ups are not humble enough to admit to their fault. Will you mess up your love just because of your pride?  2. EXPLAIN WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID  Give the background sequence of events that led to you being on the wrong. A blank apology doesn't address the issue 3. HEAR  FROM YOUR PARTNER HOW HE/SHE FEELS  Allow your partner to vent, cry, shout, and tell you how much your actions/words pain him/her. Emotions and hurt shouldn't be hidden if true reconciliation and healing are to occur. This also shows you care for your partner's feelings 4. SAY SORRY  Let your partner hear you say those words, 'I am sorry, please forgive me' 5. COMMIT TO NOT DOING IT AGAIN  Say you won't repeat the mistake and mean it.  An apology is empty if it's not sincere 6. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER IF YOU ARE FORGIVEN  Get to hear your partner tell you 'I forgive you'. It has to be official 7.  THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR FORGIVING YOU Appreciate the good

HOW TO GIVE YOUR WOMAN A HEARTFELT LOVE...

At times we men are accused of not loving our women but the truth. Many men love their women but lack the means to express and outlet that love. Men are creatures of love naturally hence God even said "Husbands love your wives". In history, we record men dying for love since it's their nature to give in love but at times we fail to show that love. 1) Presence; If you truly love your woman be present in her life. Show up in times of need and pain even joy and happiness. The lack of presence of men in women's lives raises concern for care and support. Just be present; be available. 2) Passion; If you truly love your woman then show some passion for her; not just interest like you just like her. Be passionate about her life progress; state of affairs; your conversations; and your physical affection. Passion simply means being live lively and behaving like you are forced to be with her. 3) Publicity; If you want to show how much you love your woman then embrace her public