HOW TO GIVE YOUR WOMAN A HEARTFELT LOVE...

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At times we men are accused of not loving our women but the truth. Many men love their women but lack the means to express and outlet that love.

Men are creatures of love naturally hence God even said "Husbands love your wives". In history, we record men dying for love since it's their nature to give in love but at times we fail to show that love.

1) Presence;

If you truly love your woman be present in her life. Show up in times of need and pain even joy and happiness. The lack of presence of men in women's lives raises concern for care and support. Just be present; be available.

2) Passion;

If you truly love your woman then show some passion for her; not just interest like you just like her. Be passionate about her life progress; state of affairs; your conversations; and your physical affection. Passion simply means being live lively and behaving like you are forced to be with her.

3) Publicity;

If you want to show how much you love your woman then embrace her publicly, let your world see her; post her pics on Facebook; set them as status; use her as a screen saver; and walk with her in open public spaces. Women feel more appreciated when they are not hidden.

4) Partnership;

If you want her to see your love then allow her to be your partner. Create an inter-dependence relationship with her. Even if you know you can do some things ask her and allow her to do some things for you. Allow her to choose some clothes for you; decide your life to an extent; determine this and that. Give her that power in your life for her to feel needed and useful.

5) Privacy;

Every man loves his privacy so much, but that privacy destroys intimacy with women. You should open your world a little bit for her to see into it. Let her know your source of income; your past life; your nicknames; your life before her; your this and that few you call private.

6) Promotion;

Any man who claims to love any woman must dare to promote her to the level of a wife or even a certain amount of commitment towards her. Your love cannot be seen by your woman if you still have her at the bottom of your life like a footnote reference in a paragraph. If you love it put a ring on it (I will write more on it).

7) Power;

At times women fight for power that they fight for anything. Women feel less loved especially when they have no power in the relationship. Give her the power to decide some setups of your life. Your love can be hidden and held back by a power struggle. Give your woman some power to see how much you love her and trust her with that power.

8 Pampering;

One of the things men fail to keep up with is the idea of pampering their women. Women see no love when they are not given things they love and enjoy for their pleasure. Women can be pampered differently depending what is their preferences according to their love language (5 Love Languages by Dr Gary Chapman). Find a way to pamper your woman. Get to know how to spoil her rotten. 

9) Prayer;

Our love has to be based on activity beyond physical more. Our spiritual journey has to build and grow our love. Men must introduce and facilitate their women to their spiritual journey. Our women feel less loved because all they see is the physical molecule impediment of love which can be both ways than inner spiritual intimacy that creates companionship in life.

KINDLY TAKE THIS AS BROTHERLY ADVICE NOT A PROVOCATION FOR DEBATE OR TIME TO ARGUE. BUT IF YOU DIFFER WITH IT PLEASE JUST SKIP IT AS IT IS. 

BUT FEEL FREE TO SEEK CLARITY WHERE NECESSARY.

 I HOPE WE FIND A WAY AROUND LOVE AND JOY ON EARTH AS WE LIVE.

Cheers 🥂

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