Communication
Communication a very well versed term but often misplaced and misunderstood under various spheres of life owing to several reasons including circumstances, first of all we need to be clear on what exactly is communication, as cited from Wikipedia
Communication is the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, visuals, signals, writing, or behavior.
Derived from the Latin word "communis", meaning to share. Communication requires a sender, a message, and a recipient, although the receiver need not be present or aware of the sender's intent to communicate at the time of communication; thus communication can occur across vast distances in time and space. Communication requires that the communicating parties share an area of communicative commonality. The communication process is complete once the receiver has understood the message of the sender.
However mostly, not applicable to all, but as I have experienced and seen, many a times it is a one way process, one person speaks and the other just hears it and rather not listens to it, I mean man what the crap, that is not communication, that is simply hearing, often these are confused, as easily understandable from the definition above in italics it implies to sending, receiving and understanding, not one way process, but again its never the way you would like it to be.
In relations be that of parents, couples, siblings, children, spouse, partner or even in open relations I feel communication has an extremely important role to play, if you communicate your though or line of action properly to the other person that is only when the other person can and should be able to understand your philosophy and the aim implied thereto, however in most of the cases this is never the case, the most common cases being in couples, spouses and open relations, eventually, once again not in all but in a few, communication between the partner eventually starts to fade with time and restrictions impose, failure of communication is the most deadly thing to ever happen in any relation, leave alone failure even lack of communication is a pretty disgusting thing to happen, but again you never get what you want, but yes, indeed, you do play a key role, I have personally experienced and also witnessed relations wherein lack of communications started as a very minor thing and then eventually it lead to doubts, lies, misunderstanding, frustration, anger, mismanagement, mood swings, lack of compatibility and finally lead a relation to a breaking or a broken stage, what the hell I mean, this could have been easily contained, if there is lack of communication then I feel there should be immediate steps to rectify the same, but once again you cannot clap with one hand, both the partners need to firstly feel the lack in communication and then work on finding and getting rid of the lack, believe me friends if you get rid of the lack of communication between you and partner, you just make your relation stronger than steel and if you keep working on the same you are just turning it into a steel spring, a spring that eventually with your efforts will be so strong that it would withhold any shocks that may arise out of the worst ever breaks that come in the path of life.
In partners specifically many a times lack of communications leads to misunderstanding and failure of the relation, for instance I may sms her a dozen times and she may not or perhaps respond once that too in a professional way, she may keep on messaging and I may respond like "Has the file been submitted to ****" , now this I feel is clear lack of communication and may or would eventually lead to frustration in some point of time, such things happening once in a black moon should, I feel, be ignored but again often than that they cannot be ignored and rather should not be, may be its lack of interest, maybe its seek of something thats missing, maybe its simply pushing or pushing way too hard, or maybe its compelling, or maybe its a one way relationship, its again best decided by the person who is subjected to it and no one else, but again be careful in deciding or taking calls.
There are times when she may feel one sms or call from him is suffice and content, and perhaps, it may be even more, but once again there is a flip side to it, maybe its just the other way around, maybe he doesnt know about you, or maybe you told him way too much before he could even digest it, again these are my thoughts and not compelling, I am a human and commit mistakes and write crap in the process.
No matter what, Lone still would and always will say that overcome all hurdles but let there be no lack in communication in any of your relations.
Communication is the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, visuals, signals, writing, or behavior.
Derived from the Latin word "communis", meaning to share. Communication requires a sender, a message, and a recipient, although the receiver need not be present or aware of the sender's intent to communicate at the time of communication; thus communication can occur across vast distances in time and space. Communication requires that the communicating parties share an area of communicative commonality. The communication process is complete once the receiver has understood the message of the sender.
However mostly, not applicable to all, but as I have experienced and seen, many a times it is a one way process, one person speaks and the other just hears it and rather not listens to it, I mean man what the crap, that is not communication, that is simply hearing, often these are confused, as easily understandable from the definition above in italics it implies to sending, receiving and understanding, not one way process, but again its never the way you would like it to be.
In relations be that of parents, couples, siblings, children, spouse, partner or even in open relations I feel communication has an extremely important role to play, if you communicate your though or line of action properly to the other person that is only when the other person can and should be able to understand your philosophy and the aim implied thereto, however in most of the cases this is never the case, the most common cases being in couples, spouses and open relations, eventually, once again not in all but in a few, communication between the partner eventually starts to fade with time and restrictions impose, failure of communication is the most deadly thing to ever happen in any relation, leave alone failure even lack of communication is a pretty disgusting thing to happen, but again you never get what you want, but yes, indeed, you do play a key role, I have personally experienced and also witnessed relations wherein lack of communications started as a very minor thing and then eventually it lead to doubts, lies, misunderstanding, frustration, anger, mismanagement, mood swings, lack of compatibility and finally lead a relation to a breaking or a broken stage, what the hell I mean, this could have been easily contained, if there is lack of communication then I feel there should be immediate steps to rectify the same, but once again you cannot clap with one hand, both the partners need to firstly feel the lack in communication and then work on finding and getting rid of the lack, believe me friends if you get rid of the lack of communication between you and partner, you just make your relation stronger than steel and if you keep working on the same you are just turning it into a steel spring, a spring that eventually with your efforts will be so strong that it would withhold any shocks that may arise out of the worst ever breaks that come in the path of life.
In partners specifically many a times lack of communications leads to misunderstanding and failure of the relation, for instance I may sms her a dozen times and she may not or perhaps respond once that too in a professional way, she may keep on messaging and I may respond like "Has the file been submitted to ****" , now this I feel is clear lack of communication and may or would eventually lead to frustration in some point of time, such things happening once in a black moon should, I feel, be ignored but again often than that they cannot be ignored and rather should not be, may be its lack of interest, maybe its seek of something thats missing, maybe its simply pushing or pushing way too hard, or maybe its compelling, or maybe its a one way relationship, its again best decided by the person who is subjected to it and no one else, but again be careful in deciding or taking calls.
There are times when she may feel one sms or call from him is suffice and content, and perhaps, it may be even more, but once again there is a flip side to it, maybe its just the other way around, maybe he doesnt know about you, or maybe you told him way too much before he could even digest it, again these are my thoughts and not compelling, I am a human and commit mistakes and write crap in the process.
No matter what, Lone still would and always will say that overcome all hurdles but let there be no lack in communication in any of your relations.
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